I've sat on the seller's side of the table
Sometimes you just have to get on the plane
Some years ago, at Auxin OKR, the consultancy I co-founded, we were talking to a software company called GTM Hub about working together. Their headquarters were in Sofia. My co-founder, Mark Richard, said we should go and see them in person.
I pointed out we were on a tight budget. Mark, who had been running a business by his late twenties and had a far more impressive CV than mine, said the effort of turning up would set us apart from everyone else they were talking to.
So we flew Newcastle to Amsterdam, then on to Sofia in one of the oldest planes I've ever boarded. We spent a day with their senior team. About an hour and a half before we had to leave for the airport, the CEO, Ivan, called us in and asked: why should I do business with you?
I told him everyone knows what sales and marketing is when they buy a CRM. Nobody knows how to do OKRs well. We'd bring the quality of the method, and that would make his software stick.
When we landed at Schiphol there was a message to call him. He passed us a lead that we converted within a week. The relationship grew from there, GTM Hub became Quantive, and in 2023 we sold Auxin to them.
Two lessons I've carried into every exit since. Know exactly where you add value to the person across the table. And listen to the instinct that says: go and talk to them.